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🕯️ “What I Wish People Understood About Clergy Sexual Abuse”
I was sexually abused in my twenties by a minister who now pastors one of the most influential and resourced churches in the United States.
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Elisabeth Arnold Ingram
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DARVO: The Insidious Tactic Used by Abusers in Religious Settings
The devil's greatest trick isn't convincing the world he doesn't exist—it's convincing the world that the victims are the real villains.
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The Social Psychology of Abuse and Community
Why do Communities often side with leaders when reports of abuse come to light?
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SNAP Speak Out
Practice using my voice.
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Hold GLN Accountable
GLN used its resources and influence to DARVO Bill Hybels' Victims
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IPV Barbie
How Off-Brand Barbie became Intimate Partner Violence Barbie
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My Research
Mental Health outcomes after clergy-perpetrated sex abuse and subsequent loss of community
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